I remember with total fondness the kindness, acceptance and love that Ellen showed for me. I miss her and cherish her memory.
I have many, many memories of working (and laughing, always laughing) alongside Ellen as cancer survivorship advocacy was bursting into bloom. In my decade on staff at Cancer Care, Ellen and I were often scratching our respective heads in constant efforts to get the patients' experience to count where it mattered. She turned my skepticism on its head with The March especially. For that and more, I will always be grateful for the role she played in my life and work.
It was a blessing to be counted as one of Ellen's friends. She leaves an amazing legacy!
Ellen Stovall changed the landscape of cancer for patients. She was a lone voice in the patient movement far before it became popular in the cancer community. Ellen knew that hearing the patient’s voice and understanding their needs was crucial to progress on this arduous journey. She taught us that they were not only worthy of a spot at the table, but that their lead was the key to success.
Ellen showed us that one person can make a difference, and for that, she has changed the world.
She will be missed dearly but her vision and legacy will impact millions.
We adored Ellen and we miss her friendship. As our friend, she taught us about what is really important--family, friends, and the courage to live an authentic life. She was a gift to us and an inspiration to all of us who were lucky to have her in our lives.
I met Ellen through my fiance Dan Waeger. Ellen hired Dan at NCCS, and she (and everyone there) was a key part of his support system. He walked in their door as a 23 year old dealing with lung cancer, whom many thought did not have long to live, and was treated as part of the team who was expected to contribute just like everyone else- he loved that. I was always so thankful that Dan had Ellen in his life. He always called her Boss Lady, and loved to tease her, but I think they were kindred spirits in many ways, the least of which was to make others immediately at ease and comforted in a time of need. When Dan's treatment for lung cancer stopped working the summer before he died, he sought counsel from Ellen. Despite the decades of years between them, I think Ellen was his most trusted cancer adviser. It was a role I could never fill, but was thankful that Ellen did. He could speak frankly with her about treatment options, the difficult decisions he faced and ultimately, the end of this life. And Ellen extended the same care and concern to me in my role as a caregiver. It was Ellen that I wrote when Dan was down. It was Ellen who helped us pick a hospice facility. It was Ellen who talked with me about things I couldn't speak of with family and friends. Dan loved and respected Ellen so much that he asked her to speak at his funeral—which she hated but did anyway. I've always felt that act spoke volumes about how Dan viewed Ellen and the NCCS family, who in the short time he worked there, became as big a presence in his life as his own family. Ellen's contributions to the cancer community are endless. And I am certain that anyone who spent any amount of time with her left a better person. And after all of the attention fades, there will still be a family that lost this dear woman, and many friends whose worlds are a lot less bright without her. I hope we all support them just like Ellen did for us so often. I will miss you Ellen. Thank you for truly saving my life.
When I met Ellen, I was a young executive and new to Oncology. I had been hired by Michael Milken to build the largest public cancer portal, Oncology.com. I met Ellen at the screening of the HBO documentary, The War on Cancer. Ellen immediately took me under her wing, helping me to navigate the community, my bosses and asked me to be on her board, a great honor. I stayed for 3 terms and Ellen remained an incredible and loving mentor. She was so special as everyone knows, I admired her dedication, but mostly she was just so awesome and I loved her so much. I am so sorry for your loss and it was too soon.
Many blessings to all of you,
Ellen was one of those few people who touched so many by her presence. We are certain she never realized how many people she touched, reminding us to convey our feelings to those who impact our lives while they are with us. She was so humble yet was such a force in her advocacy for cancer patients. She was also the 'go-to' person if you had a question about cancer issues, like the best center, who was doing what in cancer treatment, how to resolve dilemmas, etc. She will be missed as a friend and as an advocate for seeing cancer eliminated in our lifetime
Ellen and her colleagues at NCCS changed the way we think about cancer. The work that she and her colleagues did was groundbreaking. “Cancer survivor” is now part of our vocabulary because of their dedication. Her presence will be greatly missed by the many, many people whose lives she touched. Our team has worked with NCCS on the Cancer Survival Toolbox since the late 1990s and it has become an important part of our lives. It was a privilege to know Ellen.
Ellen is a memory from my earliest days as an ASCO volunteer. She was the first cancer advocate whom I ever met, and I remember her understanding the travails of the private practice, community oncologist. Later, as ASCO President, she taught me that "racing for the care" was as important as racing for the cure. Ellen continues to inspire our work to improve the quality of cancer care and the care of cancer survivors. May God bless you and keep you.
It was an honor to know Ellen and serve on the NCCS Board of Directors. She spent her life giving of herself to help others. Ellen's legacy will live on for years to come through the millions of cancer survivors touched by her work. She was a friend and mentor to many, and a beacon of hope to us all.
It was an honor and a privilege to work with Ellen and be her friend.
God speed, dear friend.
Ty and Sherry Walker
Ellen was a friend and a confidant. I always looked forward to her smile and her hugs. I am personally grateful for all of Ellen's support and guidance. She touched so many of us and she leaves an incredibly legacy behind -- one that we will honor forever and always be grateful for.
Thank you Ellen for all your work on behalf of cancer patients and survivors. Your warmth, care, sincerity and passion made you a wonderfully effective advocate. I am honored to have been able to work with you and learn from you and benefited from your mentorship and friendship. May you rest in peace knowing you have a legacy that will endure. My sympathy to your family and many friends.
I do not know how to begin to adequately honor you. You touched so many in ways that were meaningful and lasting. You were kind, yet firm. You were supportive, yet directive. You were funny, serious, and sensible – each at just the right times. You were tireless in your pursuit of excellence on behalf of people touched by cancer – millions of them! You were accepting of those who were new to this work and brought all of us along with a style and grace which we can only hope to imitate. You were a wise adviser, a thoughtful strategist, a talented messenger and a generous collaborator. Most of all, I am eternally grateful to call you my friend. You are and will be missed every day. Until we meet again, rest peacefully, my friend.
We are so saddened to lose this wonderful friend, and we share in mourning her loss with so many others.
Ellen was courageous, unselfish, caring, loving, and dearly beloved. She is too soon gone.
Ellen proved that one person can make a huge difference through her work and every day life. As a good friend and neighbor since 1976 she will be forever remembered and deeply missed.
The cancer community has lost an extraordinary woman who taught so many of us how to lead with compassion. I will never forget Ellen's patience and kindness showing me the way when the MMRF was just getting started. Her legacy lives in on many and her contributions were vast. We can all hope to touch as many lives as she did.
It was a great privilege to serve on the Board of Directors of NCCS with Ellen for a decade, and to witness her great tenacity in trying to change the world of cancer survivors through the political process. She personally helped many survivors, including my family and me. We have lost an inspiring advocate. My condolences to her family.
Ellen channeled her brilliance, long hours of hard work, altruism, and humility to coalesce the cancer community to advocate for patient-centered care. She has touched and enhanced our lives in ways she could not have imagined when she first became an advocate. I’m grateful for the 28 years I was blessed to know Ellen as a colleague and friend.
Ellen and I met when we were MUCH younger. We were both trying to convince ASCO that the newest hottest most profitable drugs were good, but we had a larger mission to take care of the whole person. And her family. And to think about pain, and distress, and suffering -- and how to overcome it, at a cost we could afford.
She has left an indelible mark on ASCO as well as the world. Her single mindedness about being centered on the PERSON, not the disease, slowly but surely changed ASCO. We went from the "lunatic fringe" to an integral part of every thing oncologists should be doing.
I can't be here -- training the next generation of Advance Practice Nurses at Hopkins on how to do palliative care -- but think daily of Ellen, her raised eyebrows and quiet exasperation, followed by her rock-solid determination to make us better. And she did.
Ellen was a mentor and colleague who shaped many of us. Her loss is a great one.
We were very saddened to learn of the passing of Ellen Stovall.
I considered Ellen a good friend. She aided my family significantly by recommending researchers and care givers who could help my brother Will when he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Thanks in part to Ellen's guidance, Will survived nearly a year instead of the initial three-month diagnosis.
Ellen helped me in numerous other ways, and we collaborated successfully on many projects and campaigns to support NCCS.
Although comparatively short in her physical stature, Ellen towered above all in advocating for cancer survivorship, and life.
Thank you, Ellen!
While serving as ASCO president I was privileged to work with Ellen on survivorship issues. She was an unbelievable partner and friend. Her dedication never wavered. Thank you Ellen - you will be missed. A fitting tribute would be for VP Biden to rename his moonshot “Ellen’s legacy”.
I met Ellen while working at Podesta Associates and spearheading a coalition of cancer organizations for our client, Friends of Cancer Research. I was inspired by Ellen's story and strength and especially her compassion for others. We spent several years together working on federal legislation to increase funding for cancer research. It was Ellen's mentoring and friendship that led me to my next professional role as the Executive Director of Cure for Lymphoma (now Lymphoma Research Foundation). At CFL, we continued to work together and I was blessed to have her counsel and constant support as I grew into yet another new role. 22 years later, I am a mother and advocate in the epilepsy community on behalf of my son who has a rare brain tumor. I often think of Ellen and everything she did for countless others - with survivors always front of mind and always with incredible grace. Ellen had a profound impact on my life - both personally and professionally - and I will continue to honor her memory by tirelessly advocating for those who are unable to speak for themselves.
The news of Ellen's death broke my heart. I loved that woman, a true stalwart and one of the most valuable members of the original National Cancer Policy Board. I was shocked, because she had just talked to my cancer class (via phone) at Arizona State University a month before. What a loss!!!
She was truly dedicated, selfless, self-deprecating, and got things done with good humor and grace. The world was better because she was here, and much the worse for her being gone.
One of my goals in life will be to live up to what she would want me to do.
Where would we be without wise, sincere and genuine Ellen? My heart broke when I heard the news. It's hard to imagine DC without her. I'm so grateful for what she accomplished for all of us. She was truly a leader and a hero. Sending condolences to her family.
Ellen was a gem of the highest quality, indeed a pleasure to have known personally and professionally. She truly personified what one would describe as having lived a rich meaningful and purposeful existence, one few of us could replicate. My deepest condolences to her family, friends and colleagues. Rest in peace dear Ellen.
Blessed to have Ellen as a sister and so pleased that she led the way in the survivorship movement. Wish she were able to join Vice President Biden's new initiative on fighting cancer. She would have loved being a part of that.
I had the pleasure of meeting Ellen at a conference. She clearly understood that living our vulnerabilities makes us courageous...I am ever grateful for her compassion and open heart...her work, her journey, is testament to living a joyous, meaningful life. I am grateful for her relentless advocacy...she carried our voice and we carry hers...deepest condolences to her family and friends. Peace, Peace, Peace.
I got to know Ellen through my health policy work, when she asked me to speak at several NCCS meetings. But, like others, I really got to know her when a family member was struck with ovarian cancer. When my wife's sister, living two hundred miles away, was diagnosed we called Ellen for advice. She helped center us all. She made critical connections for us in New York, and she was available to help us understand how to handle the emotional stress and the medical decisions, and the aftermath. Ellen was a great comfort to us, and to many others. She was a wonderful, caring human being.
I met Ellen when I was first diagnosed with cancer 20 years ago. Back then she threw me a lifeline that has kept me afloat ever since. She taught me that after the gut punch of this diagnosis comes caring, recovery, and the return of hope. And she demonstrated how to advocate for change so that many others can survive and be well. I will miss my friend and mentor, and continue working to honor her memory.
Ellen was one of the great pioneers and a true giant in patient advocacy. Countless thousands have lived longer lives because of her relentless commitment and dedication to ensuring their voices were heard. God Bless and rest in peace, gentle warrior. Your grace, wisdom and passion will forever be my compass, and I am so very grateful for having known you and having had the great honor of learning from you.
Ellen embodied kindness, concern, caring and support to anyone in pain and, most especially, to anyone wishing to transcend it. Her work embodied, on the other hand, focused strength. This combination is so rare and so needed. Her focused work on cancer survivorship radiated both a will and a loving kindness toward any kind of human suffering. She was truly a bodhisattva - a being whose compassion is fundamental to their being and moves them and everyone who knows them toward an enlightenment of love. She will be so very missed.
Ellen was such a lovely woman and I will always have fond memories of her as a childhood neighbor and family friend. She will be missed. With sympathy and remembrance,
It was my privilege to work with Ellen since the time she began her work with NCCS. We were often partnered in our work to improve the quality of life and quality of care for cancer survivors and all people/and families who experienced cancer. My sincere condolences to you all.
I worked alongside Ellen in cancer advocacy for years, but it was just recently that I got to know her a bit more personally. I knew she was smart and tenacious before, but then I saw how deep her thoughtfulness, kindness and humor could be. This is such a great loss and I'm sorry I didn't have more time to spend with her. My deepest condolences to her family. Ellen made a tremendous difference in countless lives and she will not be forgotten.
Ellen was a hero to every person and family touched by cancer. She fought for surveillance of cancer survivors, better care, recognizing the person's goals and values in treatment decisions, and always advocating from a deep recognition of the person in determining value in care. She accomplished so much for so many in the face of cancer and the challenges of the effects of cancer treatment. She was fun, joyous, and a brilliant beacon. I miss my friend, Ellen.
With love and condolences to her family, friends, and her amazing colleagues at NCCS,