Suzanne Lindley, colorectal cancer survivor

"My life has touched others as they have touched mine and increased my understanding of hope."

In an interview March 16, 2006 on Health Talk Radio Suzanne Lindley, nine year colon cancer survivor said about her cancer journey, "Never ever give up. A lot of people call it a roller coaster ride. There are always lots of dips and turns, and sometimes it moves faster, sometimes slower. And you just want to keep the roller coaster going. As long as it doesn't stop, the ride is good."

 

This upbeat, fast talking Texan is today a highly effective advocate for living long, being outspoken about cancer, and helping buddies along the way. Lindley was diagnosed September 17, 1998 and her experiences with myriads of doctors, clinics, and treatments have made her an expert at self-advocacy. She was told that she had only a few months to live and was sent home to get her affairs in order. Once home she searched the internet and sent a plea to an online listserv for others who had colorectal cancer. She caught the attention of Shelly Weiler who was going through the same experience and he told her that there were treatment options out there and not to give up. He threw her a lifeline of hope and encouraged her to research all the possibilities for treatment. Lindley took his advice found an oncologist who recommended options and she changed the course of her fate. Right then and there she became a fierce advocate -- for herself, then for others --  and now, in Washington, D.C.. She refers to Shelly as her guardian angel who encouraged her to take a proactive approach to her own treatment. Reaching out to others who suffered from the same illness, Lindley learned the power of speaking your mind and getting yourself heard.

 

Although she was a natural at advocating for herself, speaking with policymakers and celebrities was a totally new ballgame for her, and she admits being nervous at the beginning.  But now she speaks with authority, "Don't be afraid to pick up the phone. Ideas make a difference." Being a cancer survivor and volunteering with Colon Cancer Support landed her on the Today show two years ago where Katie Couric called her a "Medical Matchmaker" because of her belief in the buddy system while fighting this disease. She has established a network of over 200 people who reach out to each other sharing survivor stories and wisdom. This positive reinforcement has led Lindley to learn how to approach our lawmakers. She went to a training session in DC led by One Voice Against Cancer (OVAC). There she got instructions on how to contact her legislators. Along with two other Texans who attended the meeting she made plans to contact the Texas legislators. Once they met with Representative Jeb Hensarling, Lindley was so inspired with confidence and with the enormity of her mission that she has become hooked on speaking with everyone she can to improve cancer care in the US. She has met with countless members of Congress, not just the ones from Texas. She has had a private tour of the West Wing of the White House and had the opportunity to speak with Vice-President Cheney on the importance of quality cancer care. She tells anyone who asks that just walking through Congress inspires her and impresses her with her own power and the enormity of her mission.

 

Lindley gives wise advice. Start small. Reach out to a buddy, someone going through the same thing, support and advise each other. Then, align with an organization to learn how to advocate for all cancer survivors. She is a huge proponent of the NCCS training program and claims that there is not a better one out there. Train with them. Learn what kinds of things to leave behind that will prompt the legislator and staff to remember you and the points you made.  Then, call, email, contact the staff. Make sure your voice is heard. In a recent conversation, she recalls the encouragement she received that really struck home, "You can't do anything wrong and you can make an impact."

 

Lindley wrote recently, "I've done things that I would never have attempted without cancer (including sky diving and scuba diving)—lobbying with C3: Colorectal Cancer Coalition and on behalf of SIR-spheres, speaking, meeting new people and telling a very private story in extremely public places. My life has touched others as they have touched mine and increased my understanding of hope. Hope is a guiding force in life and is the closest thing to a magic wand."  

Lindley has dedicated herself to assuring that others have access to the type of care that will allow them to have this same kind of hope.

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Submitted by: Larry Lindley
April 29, 2008

I was diagnosed with Kidney Cancer on Feb 13 2008.Stage one Renal Cell Carcinoma.They found it because I had pain in my left side.They told me the cancer didn't cause the pain because it was early stage.I consider it a MIRACLE from God.There were two tumors which looked like a bad outlook for it to come back later, but one turned out to be a cyst.This changed my prognosis for the better.I was operated on april 10 2008 and they spared 90% of my left kidney and my other kidney is good.

 

Submitted by: Rosanne Ameno
April 25, 2008

I was diagnosed with stageIV colon cancer this past October. I agree with the roller coaster ride. It is a scary ride that I just can't get off. I am a Family Nurse Practitioner and have been a nurse for a long time always working with an underserved urban population. Many of my patients know nothing about advocacy and the control that they can exercise when they advocate for themselves. Unfortunately many of my patients have been viewed negatively when they try to advocate because they may not know the right words, are nor English speaking, or have come from a background in which the only way you get heard is to act out, be mean, and use swear words. My goal has always been to teach these people how to advocate and not be disturbed if they try to advocate for themselves or a family member and it comes out mean and hostile. After my cncer diagnosis I have become even more comitted to the importance of teaching people how to get their needs met in an appropriate way, while reasuring them that it doesn't mean being quiet and passive. If I didn't know how to advocate for myself I would probably have been given a colostomy bag after my surgery. I knew what I wanted, I knew that there are other ways to resect a colon and then attach it at the resection site. I also knew the name of the surgeon I wanted and took all the resources that were sent to me immediately upon hospitalization to get the surgeon I wanted to do the surgry that I felt was appropriate. My PCP works out of a large community hospital and that is where they made the diagnosis of colon cancer. They couldn't do staging until they opened me up and got biopsies but my liver didn't look very good in the scans so I was prepard for the diagnosis that would turn my entire world upside down. But for surgery I wanted to be out of the comunity hospital and be sent to Brigham and Womwen's, have a colorectal specialist do the surgery and then get further treatment at Dana-Farber. Living in a suburb of Boston I knew I could get the best and wanted it. But I tell you if it wasn't for me to be able to get my voice heard I would not be having the wonderful treatment that I am having today. By the way, the surgeon I chose was able to due the entire surgery with a lap procedure including removing about 9 inches of colon, removing about 30 lymph nodes and also doing a biopsy of my liver. (I can still wear a two piece bathing suit.) So this is part of my story. I felt compelled to write this because I have seen many people that were not able to advocate for themselves, including people in my own family. And sometimes your life depends on you being able to do this. By the way, I have three children, two are in college and I also have a 9 yr. old. And you can bet that I am proud of the two oldest because they know the importance of standing up for what you believe is right and by the grace of God I am hoping I will be around to guide my youngest.

 

Submitted by: Tom Hennessy
March 11, 2008

My experience has been a real eye-opener. I have had to fight not only the illness, but also the doctors and insurance companies. It has been immensely frustrating, especially in trying to get reliable information about alternative treatments and complete information about my condition, progress, etc from my doctors - I always feel as though they are leaving things out and, not being a doctor, it is hard to know the right questions to ask. In most cases I slow down or interrupt the process until I feel I have gotten adequate information on my own to make an informed decision. Another source of frustration is that the doctors don't seem to even talk to one another about test results, etc. Now I'm expected to undergo surgery that is potentially life altering and i feel I have not been given any alternative whatsoever. The fact that the doctors seem to use a "cookie cutter" approach is also a source of great frustration. I am othersise in very good health and have responded very well with virtually no side effects to chemo and radiation, yet the doctors continue to focus on worst case scenarios and brush aside my questions about alternatives. I'm a bit hardheaded, thank goodness, so up until now I've been able to control my treatment to a certain extent. Now with conflicting opinions among the doctors it is difficult to make a decision and I feel I am "under the gun" to opt for the surgery. I have been scheduled twice now and stopped short when the information and procedures conflicted with the test results and everything I had been told up until now. I have about two weeks to make up my mind what I'm going to do and get all the information I can to make the right decision, but I'm not about to give up or relinquish total control of my care.

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