Patricia Hebard, breast cancer survivor

“I tell people that I spent seven days with no underwear, but I had my pathology report!”

I was living in New Orleans when I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2005. My treatment included six months of chemotherapy to shrink my tumor before having surgery to remove it. After that, my doctors found there was still more cancer in my body, which meant they had to operate again. My second surgery was on Friday August 26, 2005. I was supposed to see the doctor again in two weeks to start radiation. Instead, three days later, Hurricane Katrina washed away everything in New Orleans – including the results of my last surgery and my doctor's instructions for my follow-up treatment.

You may not think there was anything fortunate in that story, but let me tell you how lucky I was. Somehow, even as the water rose and people came to rescue us in canoes, I knew I should grab the record I had of my treatment and surgeries. I tell people that I spent seven days with no underwear, but I had my pathology report!

Like thousands of other Katrina survivors, my family and I lived in the Cajundome in Lafayette, Louisiana for three months. It was there that medical personnel interviewed me and got me to a medical team that would figure out my care from that point forward.

Surviving a natural disaster that wiped away my records is an extreme situation. Unfortunately, it is not very different from the confusion that other cancer survivors experience in everyday life. When you have cancer, you suddenly have several doctors caring for you through different stages of treatment. One doctor performs your surgery. Another gives radiation. And then there's chemotherapy, which is usually prescribed by an oncologist and given to you by a nurse. Others draw blood and perform scans. If you're lucky, you also have a social worker helping you through all this while you try to carry on with your family and keep your job. If you have other health issues – such as diabetes, high blood pressure, kidney disease or lung failure – all those doctors need to understand your cancer and the effects of its treatment.

But guess what? The system does not have a way to coordinate all that. Cancer survivors usually have to figure out a lot of new and scary issues on their own. They have to do it while they are feeling sick, stressed out and scared. And they have to do it quickly.

My story of surviving a deadly hurricane is unusual, but everything else about my cancer experience is not unusual, such as:

  • The shock of the diagnosis and its life-altering impact
  • The quick education I had to get about my treatment options
  • The financial impact of paying for costly treatments
  • The changes I had to make at work so I could get treated
  • The terrible side effects of my treatment
  • The anxiety over what long-term effects the radiation and chemo would have on my body

I got chemo every 21 days for six months. My treatment was very toxic and made me feel extremely sick for five days after every treatment. And I mean sick – lifeless, unable to move. Again, I was lucky. My employer worked with me. For six months I worked 21 straight days and then took seven days off for my treatment and recovery. As hard as that was, at least I got to keep my job.

A lot of people with cancer report that when they heard their diagnosis it was as if a tornado hit them or they were struck by lightning. I know I was knocked on my you-know-what by my diagnosis, long before Katrina arrived.

Which brings me to another issue: Patients need to talk to their doctors about their cancer care plans before they start their treatments, and doctors should give their patients a paper copy of that plan. It is hard to hear anything after, "You have cancer." And then you have a lot of things to learn and a lot of decisions to make – a lot of things to talk over with your family. A written plan would have helped me, and I know it would help many other survivors.

And when survivors like me finish their therapies, they should be given something on paper that describes all of their treatments, the possible side effects, what they should do to monitor their health and who will be following up on their care. There's so much to remember- no one can possibly keep it all in their head. 

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Submitted by: Cathy Little
November 12, 2007

Where do I begin.... we survivors all know the journey, the harsh cruel treatments ,the memory problems, the reformation of our identity as someone who has or had cancer. The unbelievable fatigue,the sleepless anxiety filled prayful nights. The guilt for treating our bodies so ruthlessly and for having so little compassion for ourselves. We find our beloved angels along the way, they support us as we go alone into the battle. In my case the cancer battle wasn't the worst of it. My employer felt I had had enough time off and because of their POLICY I was auto terminated. I investigated my ADA rights which look to have been violated so I am pursuing this with EEOC. The cascade of events caused by a job termination should be listed right up there with side effects of chemo. Its been grueling, I've cried, screamed at office clerks and worried whats going to happen to me - I guess you get sick and you are left on the curb of society. I beleive we survivors have to tell the lawmakers no more auto terminations. Cancer therepies can last at least a year and healing should be the primary concern not" when are you going back to work?" The loss of work can be devastating financially but as for me it is not who I am and cancer is not who I am so I go on. For all starting this journey know you have rights, do not be intimadated and know there are people who will support you.... I can always tell who they are by that jaw dropping amazement when I tell them I was fired because I took to long having cancer.And remember- Live long, Be at peace and when necessary RAISE HELL!!!! Someone will listen

 

Submitted by: Joyce Hall
November 3, 2007

I am 77 years old,A retired RN. I attend the RoswellCancer institute,in Buffalo,New york.After my last mamogram I was diagnosed with breast cancer,My primary doctor imediately sent me to Roswell. I have been examined by the most effecient doctors in the world.I continue to have my breast and recieved a lumpectomy. I was given up to date research on my condition and with the help of my doctors I was able to help make my choice of treatment.I was prescribed to take Arimidex. my doctors examine me closely amd will be for the rest of my life.What a peace of mind I now have to look forward to. Joyce Hall

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